Stirring the pot, p.24
Stirring the Pot,
p.24
No one responded initially, many wondering if Shirin had sent it to the group accidentally.
Hello? Shirin typed. Why don’t we have Eid breakfast in the park? We can read a faatiha for Ruki. Joyce has decided to go back home as well.
OK, IM IN! Mrs Hassim responded, and slowly the others did too.
Everyone volunteered to make all the things Ruki would have liked: onion-eggs, French toast, Eid milk and an array of savouries, including some samoosas from the filling-and-folding Friday.
Rabia and Zaina made gulaab jamuns, rolling the sweet dough in the glow of the evening light before Eid day. ‘Taper the ends like this,’ Rabia said. They worked into the early morning, watching the jamuns puff up in the oil and float to the surface. Zaina loved bathing them in syrup and then rolling them in coconut.
She slept undisturbed that night, a luxury she hadn’t felt in a while.
A fresh, rosy scent filled their flat as Zaina and Rabia awoke on Eid morning. They could tell it was going to be a different Eid. A hopeful one. Even though Zaina knew that later in the day she would have to endure her cousin’s condescending glances or her aunt’s questions about when she was getting married, she felt stronger. The day would be bearable.
The building was filled with the familiar sounds of Eid morning, with neighbours exchanging sweetmeats and ‘Eid mubarak’s. Shirin and Ismail wandered out of their flat to shake hands with the others. They marvelled at Laila’s crispy bright-orange jelebi and Aunty Shaida’s daughters’ matching yellow Eid outfits.
Zaina couldn’t help but think of Thandi or Sibo and Hlengi, and that they were probably washing the dishes from Eid breakfast. She thought of Billy, who was packing for her internship in Japan which would start next week. Zaina’s heart ached a little. Saying goodbye to Joyce would not be easy either. Mostly, she thought of Precious, who’d left a few days ago, without tears. She wished she’d had more time to understand her or just to talk with her.
Aunty Julie and Mrs Hassim had been in the park from early in the morning, setting up chairs and laying down blankets. The women started arriving, and the men joined in when they returned from the Eid prayer. Solly’s eyes were still red, and Dilshad made sure he ate some samoosas and drank some tea. Mrs Hassim said a beautiful prayer for Ruki.
The maids joined them after the prayer and they shared in the bittersweet breakfast. Laila’s and Aunty Shaida’s kids ran freely around the trees.
Shirin bit into a butter-pastry pie. She couldn’t believe she’d denied herself those for so long. Ismail smiled at her and held her hand.
Joyce cleared her throat and, with an effort, stood up from the ground. ‘Ladies, I need to say something,’ she announced, and the women turned to face her. ‘I really love you all so much. This has been my home. You are like my children. But it’s time. I just can’t stay here; it’s too painful. It’s time, God knows, it’s time for me to move on. I need to return to my home.’ Tears began to cloud her eyes. She cleared her throat. ‘But I will come back and visit, and you can call me any time.’
A sad murmur rippled across the gathering. Many came forward to hug her. Kadija and Thandi assured Joyce that they would make sure all the maids followed the rules.
‘Vi, come now, talk to me,’ Joyce urged Violet, who’d planted herself next to a tree far away from where the women were sitting.
As Violet came over, Joyce noticed that she was crying. ‘Hau, Violet, what is going on?’
‘Don’t leave!’ Violet sobbed like a devastated child.
‘Ah, come here,’ Joyce said. She hugged Violet tightly, promising her that she would visit and call often. She gave her a scarf she knew Violet had always admired and pacified her for a while.
As Sibo and Hlengi helped the women clear up, Zaina accompanied Joyce into the building to get her bags. ‘Aunty Joyce, thank you for that day in the car park,’ she said. ‘I’m so grateful you were there for me.’
‘My girl, I am a mother who saw a daughter in need,’ Joyce said simply.
Zaina hugged her tightly. ‘Please give me your number so I can call you,’ she said, quickly typing the name ‘Joyce’ into her cellphone and looking up expectantly at the maid.
Joyce thought for a moment, then said to Zaina, ‘Give me your phone.’
Slowly and carefully, she deleted the word ‘Joyce’ and typed in ‘Nonkululeko’.
GLOSSARY
abaya – a cloak worn by Muslim women, usually black
abba – father
agarbathi – incense stick
Arreh! – expression of surprise, resolve or intention
Asr azaan – call to afternoon prayer
As-salamu alaikum – Peace be upon you; Arabic greeting
azaan – call to prayer
barakah – abundance
bheti – daughter
burqa – long covering worn by women to cover the hair, chest and arms
Chal … mera Haathi – Come … my Elephant
chalo – come
deen – religion
degh – large metal pot in which to cook (usually) biryani, often on a fire outdoors
dhania – coriander
duaa – verbal prayer to Allah
Eid – celebration; Eid-ul-Fitr falls after Ramadaan, and Eid-ul-Adha comes after the Hajj
Eid mubarak – happy Eid
Esha – the night prayer
faatiha – opening prayer
Fajr – early-morning prayer
halaal – pure; Islamically permissible
Hamba! – Go!
haraam – impure; Islamically forbidden
hongrah – someone who eats greedily
huffaaz – men who’ve memorised the Qur’aan and may lead the prayer
iftaar – time of breaking fast, just after sunset when the Maghrib azaan is called
Inshallah – if Allah wills it
istinja – cleaning yourself with water after going to the toilet
izzat – honour
jaan – love; my life
jaat – true nature; characteristics of a certain caste
jamaat khana – a section of a mosque
Jannat – Paradise
jee, Ma – yes, Mom
jeera – cumin
Jazakallah – thanks be to Allah
Jumeraat – Thursday night; night before Jumma (Friday)
Jumma – Friday; also refers to congregational prayer after midday
Kaaba – black cube in the centre of the largest mosque in Makkah; the direction in which Muslims face when praying
kajal – eyeliner
kajoor – dates
kassam – I swear
khatham – prayer gathering
kuncha – elaborately wrapped and decorated wedding gift
kurtha – long-sleeved tunic worn by men that extends past the knees
kurthi – long-sleeved tunic worn by women that extends past the knees
lehenga – full ankle-length skirt worn by Indian women, with a matching blouse
maaf – forgive me
maderchod – swearword similar to ‘motherfucker’
madressah – Islamic classes
Maghrib azaan – call to post-sunset prayer
Maghrib salaah – evening prayer
mahram – approved male travelling companion (husband or father)
Mashallah – Praise to Allah; can also mean ‘healthy-looking’, implying chubbiness
Masi – Aunt; term of respect when addressing an older woman
mawa – rich milk powder
mehndi – henna
mehr – dowry
Memon – a caste
methi bhaji – fungreek leaves
Miabhai – a caste
moulana – learned scholar of Islam
Muharram – first month of the Islamic calendar
musallah – prayer mat
musjid – mosque
naath – song of praise
nafs – innate desires
napaak – dirty
nazar – casting away the evil eye
ngikubonile – I saw you
ngiyabonga – thank you
nikkah – marriage ceremony
niqaab – covering worn by women to cover the whole face except the eyes
noor – inner light
paak – clean; pure
paan – betel leaf
Patchi – brand of luxury Lebanese chocolates
phudina – mint
Punjabi suit – Indian garment with a long embroidered tunic, fitted pants and matching scarf
pur – thin samoosa pastry
rakaat – one unit of prayer
Ramadaan – month of fasting; ninth month of the Islamic calendar
sabr – a beautiful patience
sajdah – prostration in prayer
salaah – prayer
sehri – daily pre-dawn meal before the fast begins
Shahada – testification to Allah
Shaitaan – Satan
sharara – formal garment consisting of a flared skirt, tapered matching blouse and scarf
shukr – gratitude
souk – market
Subhanallah – praise be to Allah
Surti – a caste
tasbeeh – rosary
Umrah – pilgrimage to Makkah and Madina; a smaller pilgrimage than the Hajj
vagaar – fried mix of onion, mustard seeds, cumin and curry leaves
Walaikum salaam – And upon you be peace; in reply to ‘As-salamu alaikum’
walima – marriage banquet
wudhu – ablution before prayer
zam zam water – sacred water from a spring in Makkah, Saudi Arabia, which is said to ease ailments
zikr – remembrance of Allah
Zohr – prayer after midday; Zohr prayed on Friday in congregation is called Jumma
RECIPES
Ruki’s creamy kheer
Chicken curry
Chana magaj
Zaina’s chicken jalfrezi
Haleem
Bhajias
Shirin’s onion-egg
Mango lassi
Chicken-and-mushroom mini quiches
Samoosas
Millionaires’ chevro
Date crunchies
Chicken akni and Raitho
Billy’s flying saucers
Chicken and methi lagan
Rabia’s hot chocolate
Kadija’s mutton kalya
Burfee
Aunty Julie’s chicken-and-corn soup
Cappuccino Romany Creams dessert
Ramadaan power smoothie
Rabia and Zaina’s gulaab jamuns
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Words can’t express how thankful I am to Allah SWT for blessing me with a mother who taught me bravery, compassion and independence, a husband who loves me in a way that makes me feel free, a son who makes me appreciate the little things, and close friends who encourage my quirkiness.
This book wouldn’t have been possible without the guidance of Professor Debby Bonnin, who supervised my Master’s thesis, on which this work of fiction is based. Thank you for your wisdom, wit and unwavering support.
To Catriona Ross and Tracey Hawthorne, thank you for loving this story and these characters into life. Tracey, your insight and ability to visualise characters is a superpower!
Finally, to my reader, thank you for picking up this book, having an open mind and going on this journey with me. Do forgive me for any shortcomings.
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Quraisha Dawood, Stirring the Pot
