Lifes tough be tougher, p.7
Life’s Tough - Be Tougher,
p.7
It is not about waiting for the perfect moment or feeling motivated every day. It is about showing up and trusting the process. The physiological benefits of moving more are within everyone’s reach, and they are a powerful reminder that the path to better health starts with a single step.
Progressive Overload
Progressive overload is essential for achieving fitness improvements. Progressive overload involves gradually increasing the intensity, volume or complexity of exercise over time to challenge the body. Whether it is lifting slightly heavier weights, running a little further or incorporating new movements, incremental changes stimulate adaptation. This leads to improvements in strength, endurance and flexibility. In his work with elite athletes, David found that carefully planned progressions were critical in preventing plateaus and achieving long-term growth.
‘FORGING’ STRENGTH THROUGH SETBACKS: MASTERING LOAD MANAGEMENT FOR SUCCESS DAVID
When I transitioned from working with the AFL to consulting with high performers in the corporate world, I quickly realised that the mindset and approach needed to achieve excellence were strikingly similar in both contexts. Whether in elite sport or business, the pressure, commitment and drive for continuous improvement are needed to achieve great things.
During this time, a father approached me about training his son, who was determined to play football in the AFL. While I didn’t have a lot of spare time, I’m always interested in helping young athletes who are motivated to achieve their potential.
When I first met Harry, he was respectful, curious and highly coachable, and incredibly clear on what he wanted to achieve. As he was a teenager, I was mindful of how much load I could prescribe, being careful not to push him too hard and risk injury. Harry had an exceptional work ethic and an ability to push through discomfort: a trait that I have seen prevalent in many great athletes. I knew this would serve him well in the long run. He was committed to improving across all areas of his training and development.
Despite his dedication, Harry unfortunately began experiencing stiffness in his back. A decision needed to be made: stop training, push through the discomfort or hit pause and seek an accurate diagnosis. Having seen hundreds of similar scenarios, I suggested that Harry and his father seek an objective medical assessment. It was soon confirmed that Harry, as I’d suspected, had a pars defect: a stress fracture in the lower spine, which typically occurs in adolescents due to load. Harry was tasting for the first time what many young athletes experience when they enter the realm of elite sport.
This was a significant setback for Harry, but it became a pivotal learning opportunity. His recovery required a de-loading program, forcing him to scale back his usual training regime. Over the next three to four months, Harry was sidelined from high-intensity training, but this period of rest allowed us to focus on other areas of his development: core strength, stretching, nutrition, mindfulness, visualisation and recovery strategies, including cold water immersion.
Although frustrating, the injury gave Harry a deeper understanding of his body and health. His perspective of himself and his limits evolved dramatically. He learned one of the most valuable lessons of all: the principle of progressive overload, not just in training, but in recognising the period when his body had hit its limit. Understanding load management, including when to push on and when to pull back, became key to his success.
The greatest athletes strike a fine balance pushing the boundaries to achieve optimal performance while understanding their limits in terms of load. Harry’s setback gave him a greater appreciation of how crucial it is to balance training intensity with recovery and compensation. It taught him to prioritise the small things—nutrition, recovery and mental resilience—alongside physical training.
Looking back, it is no surprise that Harry Sheezel was selected in the 2022 AFL draft as a first-round pick and went on to win the North Melbourne Football Club’s best and fairest in his first year. His success wasn’t just due to natural talent; it was also down to his ability to seek feedback, be honest with himself and constantly strive for improvement. The setback became an advantage. I believe he now has a greater ability to unlock his own potential, since he understands how and when to raise the bar for himself.
Harry’s story highlights an important principle: true resilience does not come from avoiding setbacks, but from learning from and adapting to them. By understanding and applying the tenets of progressive overload—by coming to know when to push harder and when to ease off—Harry turned a difficult injury into a springboard for his long-term success. This principle applies to you, too, whether you are an athlete, a parent, a business leader or a student. Growth happens when we learn to listen to our bodies, adjust our approach and keep striving for improvement.
Intuition and Self-regulation
One of the most valuable lessons we have learned is the importance of listening to your body. Elite athletes know when to push harder and when to ease off, and this intuition is something everyone can cultivate. If you are feeling fatigued or under the weather, or noticing early signs of overtraining, reducing your training load can prevent injury and burnout. On the flip side, recognising when you have the energy to push beyond your usual limits can lead to breakthroughs. Being in tune with your physiology and allowing flexibility within your plan is a key component of sustained progress.
This is not just about listening to your body, though; it’s also about self-regulation. Self-regulation is the ability to manage your thoughts, emotions and behaviours in pursuit of your goals—even when faced with obstacles or stress. In the context of physical health and fitness, self-regulation means recognising when it’s time to adjust your training load: knowing when to push harder and when to pull back to prevent injury, fatigue or burnout.
The importance of self-regulation in fitness cannot be overstated. Research shows that people who develop self-regulatory skills are more likely to adhere to exercise routines and maintain consistent progress over time. Self-regulation involves setting realistic goals, monitoring your body’s feedback and making changes as needed. For example, an experienced athlete might notice subtle signs of overtraining, such as poor sleep, increased irritability, a higher resting heart rate, slower recovery response, loss of appetite or diminished performance; self-regulation in this instance would mean taking deliberate steps to incorporate rest days or lighter sessions into their schedule.
Self-regulation is often the difference between those who achieve sustainable success and those who burn out. Elite performers are masters in understanding their own limits and recognising that recovery is a critical part of growth and adaptation. Cultivating this awareness yourself can be transformative in helping you avoid setbacks and stay on track towards your goals.
One practical strategy to enhance self-regulation is tracking your progress and responses. This could involve journalling about how you feel after workouts, monitoring metrics such as heart rate or sleep patterns, or simply taking time to reflect on how your body feels during and after exercise. Over time, these habits will give you a deeper connection with your physiology, enabling you to make informed adjustments that align with your overall health and performance objectives.
Self-regulation also reinforces the idea that fitness is not a one-size-fits-all journey. What works for someone else may not work for you. Intuition and self-regulation empower you to tailor your approach in the knowledge that progress often involves ebbs and flows. For example, you might push harder during periods of high energy, or scale back when your body signals a need for rest, understanding that flexibility is key to sustainable success.
Dr Lissa Rankin, a well-known author and physician, speaks about how by tuning in to subtle signals we can prevent more significant health issues from arising later on. She wisely states, ‘If you listen to your body when it whispers, you don’t have to hear it scream.’
THE HUMAN BODY IS TRULY EXTRAORDINARY
NICK
Our ability to adapt and adjust to different stresses and environments is nothing short of remarkable. These adaptations are not just for convenience; they are often critical to survival.
Take, for example, a trek to Everest Base Camp. The altitude, at 5364 metres above sea level, is a stark contrast to what most of us are accustomed to. If you were to fly directly from sea level to Everest Base Camp by helicopter without any period of acclimatisation, you wouldn’t survive 24 hours. The rapid shift in elevation would cause severe altitude sickness, and you’d die a painful death.
Even with proper acclimatisation, life at Everest Base Camp is far from easy. Air pressure and oxygen levels are lower than those at sea level, making basic tasks challenging and often uncomfortable.
Now, take it a step further: if you were somehow transported directly from sea level to the summit of Mount Everest, which is 8848 metres high, you would die within minutes. The extreme lack of oxygen at such elevations is, generally speaking, incompatible with human life.
Yet, with the right preparation, such as a gradual acclimatisation schedule over eight to nine days, most people in reasonable shape can safely and successfully reach Everest Base Camp. And if you have the technical skills and patience—and two months to spare—climbing to the summit of Everest is an achievable feat, as many people prove each year.
As an experienced Himalayan guide, I have been fortunate to lead countless expeditions to Everest Base Camp and beyond. It is always an incredible challenge, but it is also a profound privilege to witness people achieve what, for many, is a lifelong dream. The moment you take those final steps and arrive at Everest Base Camp, surrounded by a group that has trained, prepared and pushed themselves to their limits, is something truly special.
I have made this journey many times over the years. When I was younger, it felt almost effortless, though in hindsight I definitely wasn’t jogging the whole way! But as a young, fit person with extensive experience at high altitudes, I embraced the physical demands of the journey and consistently arrived in good shape.
One memorable expedition was in 2017, when David and I led a group of families to Everest Base Camp. It was an enjoyable and successful trip, with the younger participants often leading the charge and the parents following at a steadier pace. Regardless of speed, everyone reached their destination each day, proud of their progress.
However, on this trip, something shifted for me. For the first time in all my years trekking in Nepal, the experience was not what I expected. Despite arriving in decent shape, I noticed heavier breathing, persistent knee pain and restless nights. I was slower, more fatigued and less comfortable than I had ever been. My solution? I largely ignored the discomfort and pushed on, day by day. I thoroughly enjoyed the expedition and the group, but it was hard work.
Fast-forward to 2024, when I led another trek to Everest Base Camp, this time with my twelve-year-old son, Max. This expedition was significant for several reasons. Not only was it a fantastic adventure with Max, but it also marked nearly twenty years since my 2005 climb to the summit of Everest.
Once again, I arrived in Nepal feeling prepared. I had done the necessary work to get fit, but that wasn’t all. Deep down, I knew this trip would be different. I wasn’t just managing the logistics and welfare of the group; I was also looking out for Max and was 57 years old myself. This time, I understood that listening to my body was not optional. Pacing myself and resisting the temptation to keep up with younger, fitter participants was essential.
It’s a principle I have shared countless times during welcome briefings for high-altitude expeditions: move at a pace that feels steady and sustainable for you. There will always be people who are stronger, faster or better prepared. But high-altitude trekking is not a competition, and fitness alone does not determine how well someone will acclimatise. A solid acclimatisation plan includes more than just a gradual ascent. It also prioritises proper nutrition, consistent hydration and plenty of rest.
So, on this trip, I needed to heed my own advice. And that meant moving at a pace that felt right for me. Some days that meant walking alongside Max; other days, it didn’t. The result was an unexpected gift: a deeper connection to the landscape, the sounds and the environment around me. And, as I had hoped, I arrived at our destination each day feeling pleasantly tired rather than utterly drained.
Listening to your body when you are under physical stress is not just a good idea, it’s essential for maintaining health and ensuring safety. In the context of high-altitude trekking, ignoring warning signs from your body can have serious, even fatal, consequences. Altitude sickness is a perfect example of this. Mild symptoms such as headaches or fatigue can quickly escalate to more severe conditions such as high-altitude pulmonary oedema or high-altitude cerebral oedema if left unaddressed.
In 2017, my decision to push through despite my body signalling I perhaps shouldn’t didn’t result in disaster, but it was a clear reminder of the risks involved. Had I ignored those signals on a more challenging or higher-altitude trek, the outcome could have been much worse. Seven years later, my trek with Max taught me the value of slowing down and staying attuned to my physical condition.
When you ignore your body, you risk more than just discomfort. Injuries, exhaustion and illness are all likely outcomes of overexertion. For me, heavy breathing and restless nights were signs that my body needed a slower pace and more recovery time. Paying attention to those signals allowed me to complete the journey without pushing myself to the brink.
The benefits of being more self-aware don’t just apply to extreme environments like the Himalaya. Everyday activities can benefit from the same mindfulness. Whether it is training for a marathon or simply managing a busy work schedule, learning to listen to your body can help you prevent burnout and long-term damage. Ignoring pain, fatigue or stress often leads to injury, illness or chronic conditions.
The lesson is simple yet powerful: your body knows what it needs. When you listen—whether by slowing down, resting or nourishing yourself properly—you not only avoid harm, but often find a deeper sense of connection to the experience you’re involved in. For me, the reward of trekking with Max in 2024 was not just reaching Everest Base Camp again. It was the realisation that respecting my body’s limits made the journey richer, more meaningful and far more enjoyable.
Recovery as a Priority
Elite athletes understand that recovery is where real progress happens. It is during rest that the body repairs tissues, replenishes energy stores and adapts to the stresses of training. High-quality sleep is particularly important. Studies have shown that consistent, restorative sleep improves physical performance and cognitive clarity, and reduces the risk of injury. Recovery also involves practices such as stretching, massage, meditating, cold water immersion and refuelling. Active recovery, like a 20–30 minute light cycle, swim or walk, helps maintain movement, promote circulation and ease muscle soreness without adding extra load. In both athletic and everyday contexts, prioritising recovery is what allows us to show up stronger and more resilient.
Accountability and Monitoring Progress
Having a structured training plan with built-in accountability can be a game changer. Clear goals, regular feedback and commitment are essential. For individuals, this might involve partnering with a coach, joining a group or even just tracking progress through apps or journals. Accountability creates motivation and consistency, while regular monitoring allows you to adjust your plan as needed. Progress is rarely linear, but having the ability to reflect on where you started and how far you have come helps you keep the momentum going.
It’s a Long Game
Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither is lasting fitness or health. The process is a compounding one. The small actions you take today lay the foundation for future results. This long-term perspective can feel challenging in a culture obsessed with quick fixes, but it is also incredibly rewarding. Each workout, each choice to prioritise recovery and each moment spent listening to your body contributes to a greater whole. Fitness and health are, again, journeys, not destinations. Embracing this mindset is what leads to lasting success.
The importance of applying core principles is fundamental to sustainable health and performance. Consistency, commitment, progressive overload, recovery, intuition, accountability and patience are vital. Whether the goal is elite athletic achievement or simply feeling more energised and alive, these principles provide a roadmap for success. By practising them with intention and embracing gradual progress, you’ll create more days where your energy is abundant, your focus is sharp and you are ready to face challenges head-on.
THE MENTAL HEALTH BENEFITS
The connection between body and mind is undeniable. When we move, our brains release endorphins. These are the ‘feelgood’ hormones that elevate mood and reduce pain. Exercise also reduces cortisol, the stress hormone, while boosting cognitive abilities such as memory and decision-making. These effects not only improve day-to-day wellbeing, but also play a critical role in building resilience.
Certain types of exercise, such as yoga and swimming, promote mindfulness, which is a cornerstone of mental resilience. Running or cycling, on the other hand, can foster a sense of accomplishment and self-efficacy, both of which are key components of resilience. Physical activity helps us bounce back from setbacks by improving our mental clarity and emotional regulation.
Beyond these immediate benefits, exercise plays a pivotal role in enhancing neuroplasticity, which is the brain’s ability to adapt and grow. Regular physical activity encourages the creation of new neural connections, enhancing learning and memory. This is especially important as we age, as it helps preserve cognitive function. Exercise has been shown to improve both cognition and mood and can avoid decline in diseases such as Alzheimer’s.
